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Sunday, November 16, 2008

The "AUR SUNAO" SYNDROME

Two close friends, living in two different time zones, chatting on gtalk or yahoo with a solitary phone call now and then. Each one busy in their own world with less and less common topics to talk about.

A typical coversation between the two:
First friend: hi there
Second friend: hello
First friend: how's life????
Second friend: great, going on!!!!!
First friend: Kaam vaghera
Second friend: bus going on. how's life????
First friend: good yaar!!!!!

The conversation reaches a dead end as both of them are thinking what to say next. Suddenly from both the sides come the words or the variants like "aur sunao??? what else???? whats happening??? Whats up???"
Now isnt this common with most of us??? how many times have we strutted and stammered over a converaation like this when we have run out of words. Whenever we dont have anything to say, we pass the buck over to the other person and wait. Ultimately the conversation comes to a dead end and next time we see then online, we just try to ignore them.

This even happens with some of our very close friends. We use to have topics to discuss at the drop of the hat but now we are caught by Aur Sunao Syndrome. May be distance has not seperated us as much, but time certainly has as.

What does AUR SUNAO, WHAT ELSE actually mean. It just means tell me something new about what is happening in your life or something that I heard from someone but want to hear from your mouth.
Like:
-when are you getting married?
-when are you getting a pay rise?
-how is your love life?
-when are you leaving your partner?
- when did you get hitched?
in short gimme the gossip dude!!!!!

So dear friends, followers and visitors and everyone who is reading the post
"AUR SUNAO??? WHAT"S HAPPENING????"

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